Mama had a saying for just about every situation, and I have heard from others what their mama’s favorites were. Although I remember this one quite well, a friend shared how his mother used this for every issue.  She could solve family disputes, neighborhood drama, and most childhood catastrophes with a single sentence: “Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill.”

Translation: Calm down. You’re acting like the sky is falling when it’s really just a cloud.

My friend gave some examples:

“If I couldn’t find my favorite shirt, it was not a tragedy. It was laundry.

“ If it started raining on the day we planned a picnic, civilization had not collapsed. We could eat sandwiches indoors.

“If a friend didn’t wave back at church, it did not automatically mean they hated me. They simply didn’t see me.”

Our mamas had little patience for unnecessary drama. They could spot a molehill masquerading as a mountain from a mile away.

The funny thing is that mountains and molehills often look alike when you’re standing too close. A missed deadline feels like a career-ending event. A disagreement feels like the end of a friendship. A mistake feels like proof we’ll never get anything right again.

But time has a way of shrinking things.

That crisis from last Tuesday? Barely remembered by Friday.

That embarrassing moment that kept you awake?  Everyone else forgot it before supper.

That problem you spent three days worrying about often solves itself while you’re busy imagining worst-case scenarios.

Truth: Some things are mountains. Serious illness is a mountain. The loss of a loved one is a mountain. Real hardships deserve real attention.

  • But a burnt casserole? Molehill.
  • A slow checkout line? Molehill.
  • A typo in a text message? Molehill.

The older I get, the more I appreciate Mama’s wisdom. She wasn’t telling us to ignore problems. She was reminding us to measure them accurately.

So the next time your coffee spills, your phone freezes, or your plans go sideways, listen closely.

You might just hear a Mama’s voice saying: “Now don’t make a mountain out of a molehill.”

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