A new school year brings new teachers, new routines and, for many children, the challenge of making a new friend.
Adults may tell children to “just go say hello,” but anyone who remembers standing on a playground or walking into a cafeteria without knowing where to sit knows it is not always that simple. Fortunately, children’s books offer some gentle reminders that friendships often begin with one small step.
The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson, illustrated by Rafael López, is a beautiful place to start. The story follows children who feel different from those around them — because of their experiences, language, food or abilities. Woodson reminds young readers that finding the courage to share their own stories can be the beginning of connection.
Strictly No Elephants by Lisa Mantchev, illustrated by Taeeun Yoo, takes a playful approach. A boy and his tiny elephant are excluded from a pet club because elephants aren’t allowed. Rather than simply accepting rejection, the boy and other left-out children create a club where everyone is welcome. It opens the door for conversations about inclusion and noticing the child who may be standing alone.
For younger elementary readers, You Will Be My Friend! by Peter Brown adds plenty of humor. Lucy is determined that she will make a new friend — immediately. Her enthusiasm does not always work as planned, which makes the story funny while showing that friendship cannot be forced.
Another good choice is Be Kind by Pat Zietlow Miller, illustrated by Jen Hill. The story begins when a child spills grape juice on her dress and classmates laugh. One student wonders what it really means to be kind. The answer comes through simple actions children can understand and imitate.
These books offer an easy back-to-school conversation starter. Ask a child: “What could you do tomorrow to help someone feel welcome?”
The answer may be as simple as sharing a seat, inviting someone to play or saying hello.
Sometimes that is exactly where a new friendship begins.
This weekly column delves into the enchanting world of children’s literature, spotlighting both beloved classics and emerging voices. Send comments or questions to Susan Espiritu at susan@knoxtntoday.com.
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